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Naomi's avatar

I can't even begin to express how validating this is for me. Every summer I worry about not having enough "plans" and start filling up my calendar to the point of becoming burnt out or become stressed when I feel like I don't have "enough" fun activities. I've actually been starting to feel this way as we near summer and have become increasingly worried about how to fill my weekends.

This changed my perspective on summer. I savoured every word of this post and look forward to my Boring Girl Summer filled with simple pleasures. What an absolute gem of a post! Lauren, your writing gives me chills.

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

It's this type of comment that makes it all worth it for me. Thank you Naomi, I truly appreciate your words and I'm so grateful for your support. May we find magic and fulfillment in our unplanned summers. 🌞

Annette G's avatar

Sounds like heaven. My oversheduled summer calendar now wants a re-do.

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Awww, thanks Annette! You can think of boring-girl-summer as a feeling. One you can channel no matter what the day looks like. 🌼

Alexa Spiegel's avatar

Love love love this!! I will also be having a boring girl summer with my books, my husband, my neighbor’s pool and lots of orange wine. No Italy or big trips for us, happy to just spend it in our own backyard. Cheers to us!

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Neighbor's pool and orange wine, I'm loving the sounds of this! 🍊

Thanks so much for reading Alexa. Yes, cheers to us!

Kaitlyn Elizabeth's avatar

Lauren. This is everything.

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Aww, Kaitlyn. Thank you so much!

Dani Guetta's avatar

Fabulous

Lex, The Domestic Doyenne's avatar

I am completely here for boring girl summer

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Ahhh, love it! Thanks Lex

LeeAnn H.'s avatar

I now have boring Mom summers - my kids calendars intentionally DONT get filled , and I still get these exact moments. I’m blessed to have homebodies that slowed me down. I love how you write about being greatful to have these insights during the season of life you are in… great piece thank you for sharing and inspiring ! ✨

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Awww thank you LeeAnn. A boring Mom summer sounds perfect!

harper's avatar

This week i’ve been up to absolutely nothing and today i went out into a local forest solo, and just sat in a tree with a cereal and the nature and thought about my boredom and loneliness. (seems to be a theme recently that i’ve been having a hard time accepting.) I love this piece and your wisdom so much!

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Thank you Harper!

On My Bookshelf's avatar

Seriously… we all need to read this 💖

Raquel Felino's avatar

I lived in a touristic city when I was a teenager. I loved the summers. I didn't need much more. Now I have a daughter and I don’t have much time (or money) to travel around. Enjoy your boring girl summer, i am envious.

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Awww wishing you simple pleasures and joy this summer 🩷

Christene Barberich's avatar

A brilliant reminder of what luxury really is….LIFE in moments❤️❤️❤️

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Yesss! Thank you Christene 🌼

Eccentrica by Carla Anna's avatar

I’m loving this article so much! Nostalgic and validating. After being surrounded by grandiose and celebrated busy culture and watching others & myself overwork to the point of stress& illness, reading this is a reminder that it is okay to chill and enjoy being laid back.

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Thank you Carla! Wishing you a relaxing summer, xx

Emma's avatar

Sometimes you feel pressure to go out the country in the warmer months but actually you don’t have to. It’s ok to stay at home and enjoy yourself!

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Totally agree! Thanks so much for reading Emma, xx

Bronte's avatar

Love this! I always try and practice slow living, it's currently winter for me, so I will be aiming to have a slow winter. This week I have been going to my local cafe down the beach more and getting to see some whales as they migrate up the coast! My next goal is to do these activities without my phone with me.

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Watching whales sounds pretty magical! Thanks so much for sharing Bea. Wishing you a peaceful winter season 🤍

milka goch's avatar

As a freshly unemployed woman from the beginning of spring, I think I'll find this summer extremely enjoyable and filled with gratitude. Some things you listed are some that I have been practicing and it brings such a child-like joy, there are just no words to explain.

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

Thank you Milka! Sounds like you have a lovely summer ahead. 🌞

Kristina's avatar

I love me a boring girl summer and a part of me wish we could just stay home, but I live in a city with awful weather (think 12 degrees Celsius and rain all summer), so it’s not the same without some sun. But will definitely channel the vibe - just a few countries further south!

Lauren Neufeld's avatar

I feel you on this! Our Canadian winters are lonnnng, so these little moments in the summer need to get me through all year. 🌞 Thanks so much for reading Kristina.